{"id":66,"date":"2007-12-02T12:00:35","date_gmt":"2007-12-02T18:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/"},"modified":"2011-05-31T08:40:53","modified_gmt":"2011-05-31T14:40:53","slug":"can-vs-may","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Can&#8221; vs. &#8220;May&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One word is often misused for the other.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Problem:<\/strong><br \/>\nThe auxiliary verbs &#8220;can&#8221; and &#8220;may&#8221; are not synonyms, at least not in their primary definitions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Explanation:<\/strong><br \/>\nThe primary definition of the auxiliary verb &#8220;can&#8221; is <em>to be able to<\/em>. For example, <em>He can dislocate his own shoulders.<\/em> would be an appropriate use of this auxiliary verb. The primary definition of the auxiliary verb &#8220;may&#8221; is <em>to be allowed or permitted to<\/em>. For example, <em>May I have another piece of cake? Yes, you may.<\/em> would represent appropriate uses of this auxiliary verb.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, many use &#8220;can&#8221; when they should use &#8220;may&#8221;. I believe that the use of &#8220;can&#8221; instead of &#8220;may&#8221; when the latter is appropriate represents<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>a laziness that favors easier-to-pronounce words,<\/li>\n<li>a foreign-language influence, and<\/li>\n<li>an aversion by Americans to ask for permission.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The word &#8220;can&#8221; is easier than the word &#8220;may&#8221; to say. &#8220;Can&#8221; is spoken with an open mouth and comes out of the mouth quickly. It also begins with a hard consonant, which is easier than a soft consonant\u00a0to vocalize. &#8220;May&#8221; requires the speaker to begin with a closed mouth and a soft biting of the lips, so it starts with a soft consonant and ends with a vowel sound. &#8220;May&#8221; must be vocalized longer than &#8220;can&#8221;\u00a0to be understood. Try\u00a0to say\u00a0&#8220;may&#8221; quickly; it will confuse many listeners.<\/p>\n<p>Also, consider the influence on American English today of a relatively\u00a0large population of native-Spanish speakers. The Spanish auxiliary verb &#8220;poder&#8221; truly means both &#8220;can&#8221; and &#8220;may&#8221;; <em>Puedo usar el ba\u00f1o.<\/em> means both <em>I can use the bathroom.<\/em> and <em>I may use the bathroom.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As more native-Spanish speakers in the U.S. learn English, they will tend to use &#8220;can&#8221; instead of &#8220;may&#8221; because &#8220;can&#8221; is more easily pronounced and because &#8220;can&#8221; and &#8220;may&#8221; are interchangeable in their native language.<\/p>\n<p>Finally &#8212; here comes the psychological mumbo-jumbo part &#8212; I\u00a0believe that Americans in general (including me) have an aversion to asking for permission.<\/p>\n<p>So we prefer &#8220;Can I have another piece of candy?&#8221; to &#8220;May I have another piece of candy?&#8221; because semi-consciously or unconsciously we believe that we&#8217;re not asking for permission by using &#8220;can&#8221; instead of &#8220;may&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Solution:<\/strong><br \/>\nUse &#8220;can&#8221; when you want to refer to ability, <em>not<\/em> permission; use &#8220;may&#8221; when you want to refer to permission.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One word is often misused for the other. Problem: The auxiliary verbs &#8220;can&#8221; and &#8220;may&#8221; are not synonyms, at least not in their primary definitions. Explanation: The primary definition of the auxiliary verb &#8220;can&#8221; is to be able to. For example, He can dislocate his own shoulders. would be an appropriate use of this auxiliary&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,19,20,4,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-66","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-common-english-blunders","category-devolution-toward-simpler","category-foreign-languages","category-verbs","category-versus"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>&quot;Can&quot; vs. &quot;May&quot; - Kirk Mahoney . com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"&quot;Can&quot; vs. &quot;May&quot; - Kirk Mahoney . com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"One word is often misused for the other. Problem: The auxiliary verbs &#8220;can&#8221; and &#8220;may&#8221; are not synonyms, at least not in their primary definitions. Explanation: The primary definition of the auxiliary verb &#8220;can&#8221; is to be able to. For example, He can dislocate his own shoulders. would be an appropriate use of this auxiliary&hellip;\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Kirk Mahoney . com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2007-12-02T18:00:35+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2011-05-31T14:40:53+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Kirk\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Kirk\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Kirk\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#\/schema\/person\/ef2d2a9df1a7b457aacaa1b36d0ffe3a\"},\"headline\":\"&#8220;Can&#8221; vs. &#8220;May&#8221;\",\"datePublished\":\"2007-12-02T18:00:35+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2011-05-31T14:40:53+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\"},\"wordCount\":390,\"articleSection\":[\"Common English Blunders\",\"Devolution toward Simpler\",\"Foreign Languages\",\"Verbs\",\"Versus\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\",\"name\":\"\\\"Can\\\" vs. \\\"May\\\" - Kirk Mahoney . com\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2007-12-02T18:00:35+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2011-05-31T14:40:53+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#\/schema\/person\/ef2d2a9df1a7b457aacaa1b36d0ffe3a\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"&#8220;Can&#8221; vs. &#8220;May&#8221;\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/\",\"name\":\"Kirk Mahoney . com\",\"description\":\"Better Communication for Smart People\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#\/schema\/person\/ef2d2a9df1a7b457aacaa1b36d0ffe3a\",\"name\":\"Kirk\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9a8752dc5ed4333a83c8044afd0530fb70bcf58c955e7b5cbadbbd7b4c82c7cd?s=96&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9a8752dc5ed4333a83c8044afd0530fb70bcf58c955e7b5cbadbbd7b4c82c7cd?s=96&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9a8752dc5ed4333a83c8044afd0530fb70bcf58c955e7b5cbadbbd7b4c82c7cd?s=96&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Kirk\"},\"sameAs\":[\"http:\/\/\"],\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/author\/Kirk\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"\"Can\" vs. \"May\" - Kirk Mahoney . com","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"\"Can\" vs. \"May\" - Kirk Mahoney . com","og_description":"One word is often misused for the other. Problem: The auxiliary verbs &#8220;can&#8221; and &#8220;may&#8221; are not synonyms, at least not in their primary definitions. Explanation: The primary definition of the auxiliary verb &#8220;can&#8221; is to be able to. For example, He can dislocate his own shoulders. would be an appropriate use of this auxiliary&hellip;","og_url":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/","og_site_name":"Kirk Mahoney . com","article_published_time":"2007-12-02T18:00:35+00:00","article_modified_time":"2011-05-31T14:40:53+00:00","author":"Kirk","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Kirk","Est. reading time":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/"},"author":{"name":"Kirk","@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#\/schema\/person\/ef2d2a9df1a7b457aacaa1b36d0ffe3a"},"headline":"&#8220;Can&#8221; vs. &#8220;May&#8221;","datePublished":"2007-12-02T18:00:35+00:00","dateModified":"2011-05-31T14:40:53+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/"},"wordCount":390,"articleSection":["Common English Blunders","Devolution toward Simpler","Foreign Languages","Verbs","Versus"],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/","url":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/","name":"\"Can\" vs. \"May\" - Kirk Mahoney . com","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#website"},"datePublished":"2007-12-02T18:00:35+00:00","dateModified":"2011-05-31T14:40:53+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#\/schema\/person\/ef2d2a9df1a7b457aacaa1b36d0ffe3a"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/2007\/12\/can-vs-may\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"&#8220;Can&#8221; vs. &#8220;May&#8221;"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/","name":"Kirk Mahoney . com","description":"Better Communication for Smart People","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/#\/schema\/person\/ef2d2a9df1a7b457aacaa1b36d0ffe3a","name":"Kirk","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9a8752dc5ed4333a83c8044afd0530fb70bcf58c955e7b5cbadbbd7b4c82c7cd?s=96&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9a8752dc5ed4333a83c8044afd0530fb70bcf58c955e7b5cbadbbd7b4c82c7cd?s=96&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9a8752dc5ed4333a83c8044afd0530fb70bcf58c955e7b5cbadbbd7b4c82c7cd?s=96&r=g","caption":"Kirk"},"sameAs":["http:\/\/"],"url":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/blog\/author\/Kirk\/"}]}},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7gYTW-14","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=66"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=66"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=66"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kirkmahoney.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=66"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}